Hello Readers. How much do you love yourself??How much do
you love your parents, your family??Have you ever been in a state of depression??Have
you ever thought of harming yourself??
I almost jumped out of my skin while talking to one of my
old friends ( currently studying in KOTA ) a couple of days ago!! He revealed
to me the ‘DARK’ unknown phase of student’s life in KOTA, the pressure they all
go through during these years and the ‘WORST’ solution ( SUICIDE ) they choose
to get rid of all such troubles. Indeed, it didn’t take me even seconds to understand the ‘REASON’ behind it….
I have always been lucky to have my parents ( my strength) beside
me all through my hardships, success and failure. But, some unlucky ones have
to leave their homes and family and spend the most crucial years of their lives
all alone in a strange place. Understandably, they live in their own world of
burdens of expectations. And the unluckiest ones get stuck into it!!!
We need to understand that we are not ‘Money-Investment’ for our parents. Neither
do they expect us to be the best in the world ( because we already are). We are
their loved ones and will always be. They just expect us to do our best. They
are least bothered even if we lose in the ‘Battle of Academics’. But they are
the ‘Real losers’ if we lose in the ‘Battle of life’ because then, they lose
their priceless ornaments i.e. “US”. It may take seconds for us to get rid of
all worldly troubles by committing suicide but, it may take years ( or may be
entire life ) for them to get rid of
depression we gave to them!!
Was it their fault for loving us so much??Was it their fault
for considering us as their ‘Real World’??Do they really deserve this distress
in return of their ‘unconditional’ love and care??Just give yourself a minute
from your busy schedule and think about all these questions, think about your parents before you even
dare to think of harming yourself…..
P.S.—Life was never a cake-walk for me either. A time came
when I started considering myself as ‘Loser’. But then, I had the most powerful
weapons who helped me in proving myself wrong. I will be sharing more about it
in my next blog.
Right there in the feels. Great job!
ReplyDeleteThnx buddy!!
DeleteNow that was a master blog for all those who are not losers before committing suicide but will become one if they do so..The one who handles these moments with great maturity is the one who becomes great..IIT is just a small aim of life which yields you no where once you stop working hard after clearing JEE and getting admission into it but living a life with maturity and determination will make you great even though you are non-iitian..
ReplyDeleteThnx for the compliment brother. And yeah-Being an IITian in your own eyes is more important rather than being it on papers....
DeleteToo good :)
ReplyDeleteThnx a lot!!!
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ReplyDeleteThnx Buddy!!!
DeleteWhat perplexes me is that people have a myopic perspective of life.
ReplyDeleteAgreed sometimes things fall but then..... sometimes when things fall they do fall together!
Life is a gift cherish while we know millions won't be waking up to see tomorrow's dawn
Heck! half'd perish before the dusk takes helm.
Hmm...Well said buddy.But, it's not just about perspective.People at present are living in their own utopic world!!
DeleteGreat Lohit...!!!
ReplyDeleteKeep doing good job...you have given me soo much to think again......!! God Bless you !!
Thank you Mam, thanks a lot!!I am really honoured hearing this from you...This has certainly quadrupled my confidence!!
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ReplyDeleteBhaiya...this blog literally made me to cry after reading this..this blog was awesome...even sometimes i am also so much depressed that i had such kinda thoughts in my mind..this completely changed my mind to think about it.. thankyou so much for this blog... Greattt!!
ReplyDeletePS. I am a DOMINICAN and a JKian too.. preparing for JEE 2017. 😊
Thank you.Thanks a lot. Hearing such things makes me realise my decision to start blogging was damn correct!
DeleteYeah! Truly it was.. :) Keep posting more for us! :) We are happy to read your blogs.. :)
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